Wow! I have had to step away from this new little blog of mine! Just too much is going around these parts. I do think this is the busiest and most energetic I have felt for many winters! The biggest project occupying myself these days is school. JJ's school to be exact. His teacher is a very nice woman, but the homework he is getting for grade one is insane! Also She is not very tactful, empathetic, or understanding at times. Also she seems to be very high anxiety and it shows when she talks to the kids, and even us parents. I am not sure that I want to take JJ out altogether, but I don't think he should be in the class as much as he has been.
I am working on a plan to approach the school with. I plan to have JJ go to school when he thinks it's most important for him to go. Also the teachers will let me know when they think it's okay for him to duck out of class. Once the ball gets rolling with the plan, I have to figure out how to still make the teachers happy (by having JJ still learn what the government requires of him), but ultimately fulfill JJ and have him content, relaxed, and possibly even happy!
I have a copy of the curriculum and have been devising some ways of bringing aspects of it into our daily lives. We have also started some big projects that JJ can work on when he feels like it. He is currently working on an acrylic painting, writing a poetry book, reading The Hobbit (with me reading about 80% of it) and starting up is own business.
What?! His own business. Yes. This boy likes saving up for a variety of toys and books, so instead of give him chores to do,then paying him, I set things up a little differently. I post a list of jobs that need to be done around the house. They range in time commitments of five minutes to one hour. Some are tasks that he has never done before, so he'll need a bit of learning time before starting as well. He then bids on the job he wants. He outlines how long it will take and how much he thinks he should get paid. We decided that 50 cents for 15 minutes work is a fair average, but each job is different so the rate is flexible.
Once I accept his proposal for a job, he gets to work, making sure to note the time he started and what the time is when he is finished. He then writes up an invoice for me with the actual time spent on the job and how much I owe him. He submits this and I pay him. I do, however, not always pay him right away. Sometimes he has to submit a second request for payment if I leave it too long .... really it's a lot of fun as we are playing stuffy businessmen characters the entire time. He has the greatest fake serious voice ever!
So from this small exercise, he is learning how the world works, doing a ton of math, make estimations (still math), learning to tell time, writing, spelling, reading ..... just a ton of great things all rolled into something he willingly participates in.
Now he is only 6 1/2 so things don't always get completed. He was cleaning out a closet for me, and after about 20 minutes, he was ready to be done. It all lay scattered in heaps on the floor and he was ready to move on. I told him I would pay him for his time so far, but that he wouldn't be able to bid on another large job until he could show me that he was able to start completing smaller jobs again. He was fine with this and trotted off downstairs to play with his brother.
It took him a week before he decided to even take on another job, but it's his choice of timing. It makes such a huge difference in his life for him to be the one with choices, and to be in charge of his own time. In some ways I wish I could homeschool exclusively, but I am not so sure I am ready for this yet! We will see how the next few months go!